The most successful people in the world would laugh in your face if you think it was just “easy” for them. Because it wasn’t easy. It wasn’t simple. At least not all the time.
My palms get sweaty and my heart beats rapidly over the big requests, too. And then I wonder, “What matters more to me, my fear of rejection or my desire for the thing I want?” This question has been my North star, my guide, to at least ask for what I want.